A total guide to Facesitting

What is Facesitting?

Facesitting is literally how the name sounds. It is where one person sits on another person’s face. Facesitting, or sometimes called queening, brings one person’s face in contact with another person’s anus or genitals, either forced or “consensual.” Once the genitals or anus of the top have been brought into contact with the bottom’s mouth, oral sex if performed. The top can also grind down, wiggle, and move around on the bottom’s face.

Normally, facesitting involves a female on top and a male or a female on the bottom. This is because genital contact is more common than contact with a person’s anus and a male cannot facesit from the top. It just does not work physically. An erection goes upwards, so a male can’t have oral contact with a person below him. Facesitting is typically considered to be part of BDSM because it can easily be used to create a dominance and submissive dynamic and humiliate the bottom if that is desired.

Why Would Someone Partake In Facesitting?

There are two main reasons why people typically partake in facesitting. It is either for the sensual experience or for a BDSM type scene.

The first is because certain men enjoy the sensation of being very intimate with a woman’s sex organ. There is a specific taste associated with vaginal secretions that may be pleasurable. There is a smell associated as well that many people find erotic. Having a person on top of you exerts pressure and that can be pleasurable and heighten the experience even more than ordinary oral sex. There is often a darkness so all your other senses such as taste, smell, and touch intensify making for a highly erotic experience. Some women can “squirt” and will discharge large amounts of fluid upon orgasm. This can be very exciting for a male to have this happen on his face. Oftentimes males do not get physical proof of an orgasm, so having it directly on their face can really solidify their ego. They feel like sex gods and can do anything. It just makes you happy to be able to pleasure your partner.

The second is for a BDSM experience. A part of BDSM is establishing a submissive and a dominant dynamic. Facesitting almost inherently creates this as one person is on the top and the sole purpose of facesitting is their pleasure. The experience also creates an altered physical strength between the two partners. When you are sitting on another person’s chest and face it is a lot easier to control their movement. Even if you are weaker than your partner, they might not be able to get up because you are on them. The bottom gives up control and is unable to do things he normally is able to do. He also gets no genital contact. His pleasure comes second. His ability to be pleasured and have sex is diminished making him second to the dominant. Some people really enjoy a D/S dynamic and facesitting creates an ideal environment to do it.

Facesitting Safety

In order to facesit, you cover a person’s mouth and nose to a certain extent. This does add some risk to it. The nose and the mouth are where people breathe from, so if you restrict them too much, you can cause harm to them. This is further complicated by the fact most people’s tongues only stick out of their mouth a few inches. So you have to be very close in order for someone to perform oral sex on you. However with some practice you can find comfortable positions where you put some pressure on the bottom but not too much that it restricts their capacity to breathe in a meaningful way. This does take practice and communication. It is also good to have a signal that things are getting too intense. An easy one is for the bottom to tap the top’s buttocks or thighs in a “tap out” manner which will signal they need air and for the top to come up and allow them to breathe. Safewords, loud mumbling, or shaking can all be safety features that accomplish the same thing. Whatever works for you.

Additional Possibilities

There are other dimensions you can add to facesitting. The first is to have the bottom in bondage. He is therefore forced to perform oral sex and this can add humiliation, helplessness, and a feeling of submissiveness, all things that people enjoy. Tie his hands to his side with wrist and thigh cuffs. Tie his hands to the side of the bed. Restrain his hands to his side with belts. Put him in a straightjacket. Any form of bondage will work that prevents him from easily moving around. Do be careful though. There is an additional safety risk. If he cannot tap you to tell you he is running out of air, then there is some more risk. So just be careful and communicate lots and have a way he can still signal.

There are pieces of furniture called queening stools or facesitting stools. These are specific forms of furniture that make facesitting easy. The bottom places his head in a box, and then the female just lowers herself onto the top of the box and he performs his duties. Now these can be quite expensive and EF does not sell them. However you can make your very own. If you are handy with wood, you can make one with relative ease. But the other option is to find a chair that has a cushion you can lift up. You lift up the cushion so there is just a hole and no cushion. You then just trim the legs until it is a good height. You can then sit or straddle the chair. The bottom’s head goes under the chair (so it is under the hole). You get the same style of furniture without much effort. If you did not want to trim the chair, you could just put the bottom on a pile of cushions until he was at the right height.

Stimulating the Top

Although the tongue can be used, the male’s nose can also be used for stimulation. The female can grind around on it causing contact with her clitoris or vagina. This can also provide stimulation. What works is going to depend on each person. But a good place to start is just sitting still, then add some movement (the top), then experiment until you find what works for you.

Hopefully you now have an understand that facesitting involves one person sitting down on another person for genital or anal stimulation. People do it for both the sensual and the BDSM aspect, and that it is a safe activity as long as you think about what you are doing. If you have any questions or personal stories feel free to leave them in the comments.

I did use gendered words during this article. That is because facesitting is typically done with a male on the bottom and a female on top. You can however switch this up if you so choose.

10 best massage types in the world

Thai Massage

Thai massage is a variety of the most intense massage from Thailand physician Jevakokuma and local Chinese immigrants create some massage from ancient India to western Thailand, according to the massage, then as the royal family ‘s hospitality highest etiquette. Its techniques are also inscribed in Wate Bo Wat Pho veranda wall , where it is called ” Thai massage base .”

Japanese massage

Widely circulated Japanese massage originated in China , the former exchanges with the Chinese businessmen to EGL . Although this argument has not been clearly established , but even the Japanese medical experts also acknowledged that Japanese-style massage and Chinese massage technique strikingly similar . However , those who experience masseur kneeling back massage , etc. with the knee still very Japanese style.

European body Massage

European body massage from ancient Greece and Rome , called ” noble sport ” , then the civilian population are prohibited enjoy such health care approach. After the Industrial Revolution , which began to massage method popular in European countries.

Chinese massage (Tui na)

Chinese massage steeped in history , with health care, medical treatment for the primary purpose is an important part of traditional Chinese medicine. Legend of the Warring States Period Shen Yi Hua is its inventor , after thousands of years of medical exploration , this massage method has now been more perfect .

Clove Massage

Korean massage massage improvements made ??by a Korean family , is a moderate -priced beauty massage method , in the beauty industry is also known as ” Korean pine bone .” In addition to ” loose bone ,” the great distinguishing feature , push the main content of oil and heat are also Korean massage , in addition to Korean massage also often include shampoo , manicure , herbal bath .

Hong Kong-style massage

Hong Kong-style massage is a doctor in the southern coastal area of Guangdong massage technique based on the absorption of Western oil massage techniques in recent years, creating a new massage method . Including thumb pressing method, stepped back method and push the oil law .

Hot Stone Massage

In 1993, the American Massage guru Mary Nelson introduced such a hot stone with a special oil ( based on individual physical deployment ) of massage, appeared to attract a large number of Hollywood stars .

body-fit massage

Details masseur massage for those who experience first body exfoliation ; then start up with oil from the feet gently massage the legs , abdomen , buttocks, finally relaxing massage of the back . Through the process of communication with massage experience those special parts of poor blood masseur would impose different strength and tactics.

LIFE TOUCH Massage

Details before massage massage , masseur and experience of those who first exchange to targeted massage ; Then, masseurs use massage oil, kneading, stroking and other relaxation techniques in different parts of the body . Those who want to experience the calm , rhythmic breathing , easy masseuse will massage consistent with its speed .

Lymphatic Massage

Lymphatic drainage massage masseur details push rub along experiencer , and the remaining four fingers or thumb together at each location on the lymphatic system repeatedly pushed rub about 1 minute. Because lymph nodes are very sensitive , and the rhythm of massage aimed at strengthening the lymphatic circulation , rather than relieve muscle fatigue, and therefore less force during the massage.

How to perform a nice tantric massage?

Giving tantra massage is an ancient spiritual practice first developed by the Hindus many centuries ago. The purpose of tantra massage is to awaken and connect with the divine energy of the body, experiencing its sensuality, while becoming one with the universe. Basically, you want to feel and know that you are not a separate entity from the world and beyond. This kind of awareness enhances sexual pleasure by removing the mind from the picture. This is no ordinary massage so be warned, once you give tantra massage you may never go back.

Prepare your space.  Tantra massage is a sacred ritual requiring a pure environment. Remove clutter from the area. Have soft candle light glowing and soothing meditative music playing. If you don’t have a massage table, make sure the bed, couch or floor is comfortable for both you and your partner. You wouldn’t want a back ache or a stiff neck to take away from the ecstasy this massage can produce.

Awaken your energy. Prepare for your  tantra massage by getting into the right state of mind. Meditate before beginning. Your goal is to feel at one with the universal life force. Wear a robe or loose fitting clothing during your preparation.

Connect energetically with your partner. Undress mindfully one at a time. Thank them in your mind or out loud for experiencing this ancient ritual of  tantra massage with you. Once you are both naked, the one receiving the massage may lie down face up.

Massage from head to toe, but ignore the genitals. Work your way up from head to toe while you and your partner breathe deeply. Fully relax the receiver of the  tantra massage before moving on. Pay special attention to the center of the body.

The Yoni massage. In the Sanscrit language the vagina is called yoni. Gently massage the perimeter of the vagina. Go slowly, moving your fingers up and down both sides. Hold the clitoris loosely between your index and middle fingers and move them in a circular motion back and forth. Check in with your partner to make sure she’s breathing deeply and slowly. Keep stimulating her clitoris with left the hand and insert your right index finger into her vagina. Massage the inside of her yoni with varying pressure and finger placement. If the clitoris becomes too sensitive for finger stimulation, place your palm face down on the mound of her vagina and move in a circular motion. Remove your finger from inside her and finish up by touching her body. A light rubbing of her breasts, legs and abdomen signal the end of the massage and help disperse the energy from her “sacred spot.”
The Lingam massage, aka “Wand of Light.” Have your female partner start the lignam massage on you by working around the base of the lingam. Pay special attention to the testicles, pubic bone and the area between the anus and the scrotum. Stroke the shaft of the lingam using an upward motion alternating hands. Work the head as if you are juicing an orange. Keep changing directions and use both hands to massage the head and shaft at the same time. Move one hand down to the “sacred spot,” a small pea-sized area located between the testicles and the anus. Push inward slowly, simultaneously massaging the lingam. Your partner may be close to ejaculation at this point. Orgasm is not the goal of the massage, but a welcome side effect. End the session with rubbing his whole body with a light touch.

How to perform a nice tantric massage? from Asian massage London

How To Give Your Girl great sexy body Massage

First: This is a kind of erotic  massage!erotic massage

The sexy body to body massage (aka b2bmassage or sexy full body massage) is different than a standard massage in that you use your entire body to give the massage instead of just their hands. This is a sexy alternative to a typical ‘hands on’ massage that will help spark up your love life in just one night! your girle you’ll learn the secrets of how to give a sexy body massage.

1.Prepare the surface. A sexy body to body massage requires a lot of massage oil so before you begin, lay down a sheet or towel on the surface that you will be giving the massage on. This will make it easy to clean the area up once the massage is over.

2. Set the scene. Before you begin this erotic massage, you’ll want to set a romantic scene by dimming the lights and placing candles around the area. This will help your girl to relax during the sexy body massage. It will also put your girl in the mood for a romantic evening.

3. Undress both you and your girlfriend. Both you and your girl will need to undress for a sexy body massage. During this type of massage,your body is rubbed all over your girl, so you won’t want to have any undergarments in the way. Get completely undressed and your girl lay flat on your girl stomach to prepare for the sexy body massage.

4. Begin tyour body2body massage. Now you’re ready to begin the sexy body massage. To start, apply warm (not hot) massage oil liberally all over your girl back, shoulders and buttocks. Be sure to rub your hands togetyour girl before touching any area of the body. Begin by rubbing the back and shoulders with your hands only, massaging with a comfortable amount of pressure.

5. Take it up a notch. Once you have relaxed your girl (approximately 10 to 15 minutes) straddle your body across your girl buttocks, and rub against your girl lower body with your pelvic region as you continue to massage the shoulders, neck and arms. Use slow movements as you rub, and lower you face and kiss your partner as you gyrate and massage your girl body. Things will heat up quickly and you may be tempted to penetrate your girl, but don’t! The point of a sexy body massage is to tempt your partner with your body and make all your girl senses heightened. This will intensify the sex when it does finally occur.

6. Flip your girl over. To finish the b2b massage, flip your girl over and repeat the process on the front of your girl body. Since you will be eye to eye for this portion of the massage, most couples become overwhelmed with their passion for one anotyour girl and don’t make it far in the massage before they break down and have sex. Try to hold out as long as possible, as the longer you wait, the more animalistic you’ll become for one anotyour girl.

ps. you need to perpare : Massage oil and candel for the sexy body massage .

Sensual massage secrets: How to do nude massage

As many clients have ask us about LSM’s nude sensual massage secrets, today I will lead you to explore a little.

One of the hottest massages available in London is the nude Asian Massage, and the girls in the massage parlours there are the experts on how to give a nude Asian Massage. These nude Asian Massages are very sensuous and last from one and a half hours to two hours. If you would like to try this out on your partner for an experience you won’t forget, here are some tips by LSM’s professional massage team on how a nude massage is done.

Nude massage

Get completely naked and get in a bath tub to get completely relaxed. The first step in giving a nude Asian Massage is to get into a tub and place your legs under your partner so he floats to the top and you can massage and caress his most intimate areas. Go slowly and don’t miss any important areas.

Wash every nook and cranny thoroughly during this intimate tub massage. Cleanliness is the most important part of the nude Asian Massage. It is also during this time that intimate caressing, some oral sex or breast massages, if so desired, may occur. This process usually lasts approximately thirty minutes.

After the tub massage, it is time to move to an air mattress on the floor. The mattress is filled with soapy suds. Cover yourself with the soapy suds and massage your partner’s body with your body, sliding up and down and slithering all over him. Here is where you can get real creative and make up some moves of your own. With practice you can become an expert in thinking up unusual moves and giving a sensuous nude Asian Massage.

After the air mattress, both you and your partner rinse the soap off, dry off and move to a bed. The massaging and caressing continues, and at this point more oral sex or even physical sex may occur, depending on what you and your partner want. When your partner thinks he is fully satisfied and the massage is over, it is not!

The non-sexual part of the nude Asian Massage now begins. Give your partner a slow, relaxing, non-sexual massage. Use a massage oil and work on every muscle, stretching them as you go. This intimate, sensual experience is one you and your partner may want to repeat time and again. Enjoy!

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